just keep it to yourself…
there are some things in this world that you really don’t need to tell to anyone with the exemption of confidential things.. what i mean to say is that we really dont to tell how we are feeling just to keep everybody posted… cause no matter how much information you divulge, at the end of the day, you realized that it really didn’t help us…
i keep on babbling on this site how i feel or react to something.. well, maybe because this is my site and i can do whatever i want to do… i’m actually tempted right now to write about something i don’t like in my new job.. but i stopped myself from doing so cause again, i realized it won’t help.. it might even cause some commotion…
and one thing i realized also is that the more i tell about something the more i put myself on the spot… and im no fan of being on the hot seat.. yeah, i must admit sometimes that i love being the center of attention (who doesn’t?)… but if it gives you pain, better keep your mouth shut..
being outspoken is not a bad thing.. but i think we should learn not only to think twice but a hundred times before we utter something… mean what you say and say what you mean…